Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
"Cognitive Behavioral Therapy" is the major school of thought for assisting with Mental Health and Fitness in the world today.
It arose out of the work of Aaron T Beck and, in terms of ancient philosophy it has some connection to the Stoics.
The block-buster mega hit New York Times Bestseller in the field is "Feeling Good" by David D Burns.
With its distinctive yellow cover and blue title, it sold so many copies back in the day that it's readily available and easily spotted in most any second-hand bookshop.
I remember seeing that book in many places (I had never read it) and I always thought to myself "Oh there's that piece of crap book from the 70's with it's 'THINK HAPPY THOUGHTS' bullshit"
One day I picked it up, just to flick through it and laugh at how stupid it was. Within a minute or so I was deeply engrossed.... this wasn't some 'think happy thoughts' bullshit... this was much deeper than that... this stuff understood the human brain in a way that was way beyond any bumper slogan.
The heart of classic CBT is this:
- Your feelings are caused by your thoughts. (That's a pretty big deal!)
- If you feel bad (anxious or depressed for example) then the thoughts you are currently thinking are bound to contain distortions or flaws, that are known as "cognitive distortions". Eliminate the distortions, and the thoughts will be improved. Because of point 1 (above), the feelings will inevitably improve as well.
Eliminating the distortions from your thoughts is about "reframing" your thoughts. CBT (and the book Feeling Good) provide a series of techniques to re-frame your thoughts from their current sad-making form into a form that is more true and less sad-making.
From the point of view of a computer programmer like me, this is analgous to debugging or refactoring the brain itself, on the fly, without taking the system offline. It's an ambitious and powerful idea.
The top 10 cognitive distortions from this book are:
- All-or-nothing thinking
- Mental filter
- Disqualifying the positive
- Jumping to conclusions
- Magnification of the negative (and minimization of the positive)
- Emotional reasoning (It feels true so it must be true)
- Should statements (I should feel better by now)
- Labeling and mislabeling ("I'm such a piece of shit" <-- "shit" is a label.)
- Personalization (Blaming yourself for things that are outside your control)
There are many techniques which Doctor Burns spells out for identifying your thoughts (simply noticing your own thoughts is the first challenge...) then identifying which of the cognitive distortions are present in a given thought and then writing out a revised version of the thought.
Feeling Good has chapters focused on:
- Self esteem
- Love addiction
- Your Work is Not Your Worth
But CBT did not stop with that book -- and there have been many upheavels in the world of psychology since then (and will be many more in the future too).
The major heir to the throne of non-pharmacological assistance with Mental Health and Fitness is now a particular branch of CBT called "ACT", which stands for "Acceptance and Commitment Therapy" and is pronounced "Act".
ACT, in contrast to classic CBT, concedes that you can't necessarily eliminate bad feelings, and you can't necessarily eliminate or re-write harmful thoughts. Their general attitude to classic CBT is: "Give it a go, by all means, maybe you will reduce some of your bad feelings, quite a bit, and maybe you'll succeed at rewriting some harmful thoughts -- that's great! But when you still feel bad and when you still have unhelpful thoughts... you haven't failed at CBT... it's just time for ACT to get involved."
The A in ACT is "Acceptance". We need to accept that thoughts and feelings will arise, and not expend all of our energy in a futile quest to "control" our moods or "control" our thoughts. Equally, we can't control the past, and must accept it. What we can control is our behavior: the way we choose to act. And we can act despite our moods, despite our feelings and our negative thoughts. But to do this takes commitment (the "C" in ACT). If we manage to do this, to act in a way that is in accordance with our values, then whether we felt good or not is of less importance. That's my summary of the thing.
Some of the crucial concepts in ACT are "mindfulness", "values" and "defusion".